Can sex be a hobby?

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

I was sitting in traffic the other day and I spotted a bumper sticker that said "A bad days fishing is better than a great day in the office". Which made me wonder, is an average afternoon spent fucking better than a great day in the office? and if it is, can fucking be a hobby?

One thing I really enjoy about playing around is the escape from reality that sex provides. Losing yourself in a different world, one of your own creation. Relief from the stresses of the world, not having to be you or even the persona that the rest of the world knows you by. Let alone the tension release that an orgasm can provide.

Which also makes me wonder about something else. I am very dominant in my everyday life, I run a business and a home. I am the go-to person for everything, the decision-maker, the person that carries the can. Its stressful, I love it but its a huge amount of responsibility to carry everyday. Maybe that is the attraction to sexual submissiveness? The desire to let go and allow someone else to make the decisions, be in charge, direct me?

14 comments:

marriedbutnotdead said...

Hi, lovely blog.

I empathise with your last post. I'm not exactly dominant in my 'real' life, but a lot more in control and constantly aware of not showing weakness as a woman (because we none :)

I do like having a second life though. I like lovers who take charge and are men in the bedroom. He must want to just fuck me, not paint the kitchen :)

Can sex be a hobby? Not for me, hobbies become boring lol, sex is a passion, an sensual vocation.

Keep writing
Amy

Topaz said...

Agree with Married...
Not a hobby, but a part of life.
You can easily separate 'work' from 'hobby' in terms of time, effort, focus and money. But sex is woven through the fabric of time/effort/focus. I can be doing anything, work, fun, chores, you name it, and if the mood strikes...
As for the submissiveness, I too believe that public facing control makes me appreciate a man taking that control from me. I think I commented on someone elses blog about that recently. Simply... delicious.

Hubman said...

Sex is my hobby!!! Though in my work life and around the house I'm the more dominant one and that continues to the bedroom. Or the living room floor. Or the dining room table...

Advizor said...

Dictionary.com defines a hobby as, "an activity or interest pursued for pleasure or relaxation and not as a main occupation." So, unless you are a hooker, porn star, or politician, sex can be a hobby.

But not all hobbies are safe. SCUBA is a hobby too. Both are funnest when wet, you get to go down, you have to wear rubber, and it works best if you have a dive partner. It is also better on a boat than a beach and even more fun when done in a group.

But chess is also a hobby. You have to be strategic, get the little guys out of the way, restrict the bishop, protect the kind, and attack with well thought out moves. And, in the end, it is best if the other player just submits....

AttorneyGuy said...

YM - I found/started reading your blog about 3 weeks ago: wow! have gone back and read the entire thing from beginning (living in Orlando FL in current economy leaves TONS of time for a self employed professional who has gone back to school for another professional degree)...
I am reading this from the mirror side of the story, as a 15 year married guy with a lovely wife who is totally devoted... to the kids (for the last 10 years). Have spent those years keeping self on a tight (resentful) leash. Now I am reading postings from maritally unsatisfied women who are doing something about it (are you really on the other side of the world?) hmmm, how does one go about finding / introducing oneself to likeminded married women (Adultfriendfinder? is it really that simple?)
Regardless, please keep writing, I cant wait for the next exciting episode!

Ms Scarlett said...

A fabulously fun, and satisfying hobby, if you ask me Petal! Especially if you have a like-minded partner (or partners, if you're that lucky) to practice your hobby with...

Kimberly said...

I agree 100% with what you said about the escape from your everyday life - you summed it up perfectly.

RIV said...

A little late to the party, but YAH!

In fact, I have a post explaining exactly that!

Everyone needs a hobby!

Sexy PTA Mom said...

Well, it is definitely a great way to get a break from the stresses of "real life"! Although I must say I am fairly submissive in bed--love a man who takes charge, and I am not particularly dominant in the rest of my life.

Another Suburban Mom said...

Yes sex can be a hobby and an enjoyable one. However unless you are an uber-breeder you don't get much to show for it, unlike knitting or scrapbooking.

I am bossy at work and like a little sumbission at home myself.

Anonymous said...

Sex is more a vocation than a hobby..

autumn said...

perhaps it's the one area of life that you like to have someone else make the decisions for you. your release and escape from every day stuff.

i think sex would be a fabulous hobby. it should be one for sure.

13messages said...

I think that's the main draw for me when I'm feeling submissive. I just want to let go, follow directions, and not have to guess or wonder about what I'm doing for her.

As for sex as a hobby? It's my favorite one.

bdenied said...

yes it can be a hobby and finally, I have you linked because I just love linking to wives who see other men

 
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