Meeting the couple...

Monday, November 2, 2009

Well I did it, I met the couple. It didn't quite go as I imagined it would....sheesh when does anything in my life go to plan, but hey that's the fun bit about life isn't it? I assumed that we would meet up at a local pub/bar, have a drink and get to know you kinda conversation....

Well meeting at the bar morphed into meeting at the hot pools, yeah, hot pools! First thought at that suggestion was "OMFG your kidding me?? you wanna see me nearly nekkid and I don't even get alcohol to cover my nervousness??" Second thought, actually I don't think I had a second thought, I was too busy being hung up about meeting people for the first time I could be potentially fucking wearing nothing but a bikini.

I got over that (eventually), donned my bikini and set off to meet the couple at the pools.They were surprisingly easy to spot in a public pool full of other couples, thank goodness....I did have visions of having to wade through the pool randomly asking people if they were keen to hook up!! She was absolutely stunning, in a blonde early thirties kinda way and he wasn't too shabby either, phew!

We spent an hour hanging out, chatting and getting to know each other. It was brilliant to meet and chat with a couple of sexually open minded people, they really were lovely. Will I see them again?

Ahh...there's the thing. They have sent me a very nice email inviting me to join them one evening but I really just don't know. Yes they were both attractive, yes they were very lovely people but I really got the impression that she wasn't...well, she just wasn't that into me. You know when you meet someone, and I have found this to be relatively true for both men and women that I have met, that there is body language there that you pick up on, body language that lets you know that they find you attractive and if you feel the same about them then you are sending the same cues back.

I just didn't get any from her. None at all. I don't know if it was because we were in a public place or maybe she was nervous but I didn't pick up anything from her that she found me attractive and was keen to go umm snorkelling :) Maybe I'm just reading it wrong, because its sport fucking there doesn't need to be that something there?

To be honest, I am inclined to give their kind offer a pass. Because I don't feel like there is that 'something' between her and I, I don't want to get caught in a situation where there is the pressure to perform or in a situation where it makes it difficult to bail out of if its just not working out. I want my first experience with a woman, if it does ever happen, to be a good one, hopefully!

8 comments:

Black Pearl said...

Go with your instincts. Nothing worse than getting in to a threesome and one person isn't all in (pun intended), and that person ends up making everyone else uncomfotable. You're couple is out there and you'll know it right away, just as you knew this one wasn't it. Good luck in your search and of course keep us posted!

Topaz said...

I couldn't agree with you more - you need to have good chemistry. But if they're hard to come by, then maybe a telephone conversation with the blond could give you a better sense of how you feel?

Hubman said...

If the chemistry isn't there, between all three of you, don't do it. I agree with Topaz, maybe getting to know the woman a little bit, one-on-one, might give you a better sense if she's into you.

Good luck!

Jim said...

I agree with the others . . . must be fairly typical that someone doesn't hit it off with BOTH in a couple, which makes the ones you DO click with that much more special.

And having NO experience with this whatsoever, I'm pretty jealous of you even having a chance at it, lol.

XO

Advizor said...

The chemistry aspect has to be there, but how about exchanging some e-mails with her, just 1-on-1, to see if she was just nervous, there to please her husband, or to confirm what you suspect. She may be playing along to help his fantasy, but Black Pearl is right, in a group of three, having 1 person out of the loop is no good....

But, what we really need, is pictures of this bikini you mention......


:-)

Ben said...

One more in fervent agreement with the others. In an MFF threesome, I think that the FF link has to be there, without fail. Sure, the guy would be glad to fuck you. And perhaps you'd be glad to fuck him. But you really have to want to be with the woman as well, and she with you, or it is likely to be a bad experience. That's my view.

Dewey's System said...

I think everyone is agreeing with you here so why should I dissent? But there is a part of me that says go to the next date and then see what happens. You don't know for sure so I say go and then feel it out. (or feel them out).

Or not . . . :-) Hey, you're talking to the guy that has done his fair share of settling lately and why should you settle for anything less than perfect?

dark snow said...

instinct is normally accurate...

 
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