The couple dilemma...

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

On my AFF profile I have checked the box 'Bi-curious'. Because I am. I'm curious about being with another woman, what they feel like, taste like etc....you get the idea. One box I didn't check though, was the 'looking for a couple' box, which was why I was very surprise when I was contacted by a local couple wanting to know if I would like to meet them for a drink and maybe more.

Now trying out the experience of being with a woman has always been on my bucket list, sure, its not anywhere near the top but its there. I always imaged that it would be more of a one-on-one thing, not part of a pair. Threesomes are definitely on my bucket list and quite near the top too. But when I think threesomes, I always think MMF, not MFF. I don't know why, I suppose having had one threesome with two guys, I want to do it again....and again! [That and I know what to do with cock, pussy on the other hand is a bit of a mystery to me]

So there is my dilemma. Do I met up with this couple, hope that she is indeed as hot in person as her picture shows and maybe give the girly thing as part of a threesome a go even though it doesn't quite fit into my imagined scenario, or do I stick with what I have always thought of all along, one-on-one because it fits within my comfort zone.....Oh hell, its only a drink!

13 comments:

Me said...

Good luck !! Can't wait to read what happened !

Ben said...

Go for it. It is only a drink. We've found it very enjoyable as explained in my blog. And it continues to be so.

I think my wife would say to try out one-on-one with a women first if you are bi-curious. You'll have the leisure to appreciate the way a woman caresses, kisses, and you can figure out what to do with a pussy ;-)

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Black Pearl said...

Can't wait to read all the juicy details!

Soul Powers said...

Go for it, what the hell! The worst thing is that you'll find you're just not that interested.

Gray said...

I would definitely meet up for a drink. You never know what you might be missing out on. ;)

bdenied said...

there was a show here in the States and a couple enticed a girl into bed with them and then they argued accusing each other of "hogging" the girl.....

Eva Huntress said...

what's wrong with a drink after all. Oooh this is going to be good...

vsk witness said...

It is only a drink. By your own admission this is not your top choice. So don't try to control it, if its right for you you'll know. Its all about people not their junk, eh?

I like your blog!

Advizor said...

On "Friends" Ross had a three way with his wife, and her new "girlfriend" before they realized she was a lesbian. (Don't yell at me, I didn't write that episode.)

As the action heated up between the two women Ross felt more and more excluded. His friend Joey, disappointed at the lack of FMF action as, "What did you do?"

Ross's famous reply?

"I got up and made a sandwich. It was really good."

Point being, real life doesn't always live up to our fantasy. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try, just go in with the right expectations and a good camera....

:-)

autumn said...

yes. go for the drink at least. you never know...it might be very interesting. :)

Vibrator said...

If you dont try you will never know!

Easily Aroused said...

As several have already pointed out, you're initially agreeing to meet for a drink, and maybe more.

You may find that it's much more exciting because it's outside of the scenarios you've traditionally visualised ... and you could always specify that you want to interact with her only if you want to stay close to your comfort zone. She may even be willing to play one-on-one while her husband paces restlessly in the hotel lobby...

~EA

 
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