Kimberly at Your Errant Wife has come up with the fabulous idea for a series of blog posts based on a topic theme, the first one being 'Your first time'. Make sure you check out hers and these other wonderful bloggers posts on the same topic. Hubman Aurore Andy Bedenied Topaz Library Vixen Enchanted Mistress Dutchess Lionia Autumn & Southern Girl
My mother being the open, liberal person that she is, bless her, gave me two pieces of advice [which I did follow] when it came to sex. The first was, don't wait until your married, get out there and having some (safe) fun experimenting. And the second was, when you decide that your ready to have sex, do it with a guy who will appreciate the moment, not just a one night stand.
Well I did wait for 'Mr-Will-Appreciate-The-Moment' and I am glad that I did. I was 17 and he was 20 and I was deeply caught up in a summer romance with him. Ah... sun, sand and surfies, gotta love em! I wish I could sit here and recount with absolute accuracy the night that I lost my virginity but I can't. Sadly the night isn't burned into my memory for posterity but I do remember some things about having sex for the first time.
I remember that it was a warm summers evening. A whole group of us were hanging out at a mates place, having a few drinks, listening to some of the guys picking out songs on their guitars and generally talking some shit as you do at that age. He asked me if I wanted to come back to his place and maybe stay the night. I imagine that it probably took me a nano second to agree, I had already decided that it was about time to get the whole virginity thing out of the way and he was the one that was going to do it.
I remember that he lit come candles in his bedroom and it was sweetly romantic! I also remember being very surprised how little it hurt, I think I had expectations of a burning, ripping pain etc... too many romantic novels me thinks! But the one thing that stands out in my mind above all else is that he went down on me. I didn't have a clue what the hell he was doing. He told me to lie back and enjoy it, I didn't, it was just too freaky for words!
Funny enough though, I did marry the guy that gave me my first orgasm. And to this day he can still get me from zero to the big O in under 5 minutes. I would love to know exactly what he does to get me there, as yet no man as come close to satisfying me in that way as my Husband does, just one of the many things I love him for!
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