My First Time...

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Kimberly at Your Errant Wife has come up with the fabulous idea for a series of blog posts based on a topic theme, the first one being 'Your first time'. Make sure you check out hers and these other wonderful bloggers posts on the same topic. Hubman Aurore Andy Bedenied Topaz Library Vixen Enchanted Mistress Dutchess Lionia Autumn & Southern Girl

My mother being the open, liberal person that she is, bless her, gave me two pieces of advice [which I did follow] when it came to sex. The first was, don't wait until your married, get out there and having some (safe) fun experimenting. And the second was, when you decide that your ready to have sex, do it with a guy who will appreciate the moment, not just a one night stand.

Well I did wait for 'Mr-Will-Appreciate-The-Moment' and I am glad that I did. I was 17 and he was 20 and I was deeply caught up in a summer romance with him. Ah... sun, sand and surfies, gotta love em! I wish I could sit here and recount with absolute accuracy the night that I lost my virginity but I can't. Sadly the night isn't burned into my memory for posterity but I do remember some things about having sex for the first time.

I remember that it was a warm summers evening. A whole group of us were hanging out at a mates place, having a few drinks, listening to some of the guys picking out songs on their guitars and generally talking some shit as you do at that age. He asked me if I wanted to come back to his place and maybe stay the night. I imagine that it probably took me a nano second to agree, I had already decided that it was about time to get the whole virginity thing out of the way and he was the one that was going to do it.

I remember that he lit come candles in his bedroom and it was sweetly romantic! I also remember being very surprised how little it hurt, I think I had expectations of a burning, ripping pain etc... too many romantic novels me thinks! But the one thing that stands out in my mind above all else is that he went down on me. I didn't have a clue what the hell he was doing. He told me to lie back and enjoy it, I didn't, it was just too freaky for words!

Funny enough though, I did marry the guy that gave me my first orgasm. And to this day he can still get me from zero to the big O in under 5 minutes. I would love to know exactly what he does to get me there, as yet no man as come close to satisfying me in that way as my Husband does, just one of the many things I love him for!

10 comments:

autumn said...

ohhh it's wonderful to read of a greatly positive first experience, but even better to hear that you have wonderful sex with your husband. :) yay for you both!

The Duchess said...

Oh I had the burning and the pain - but it didn't last long, and on the whole I still enjoyed it :)

hubmanshangout said...

That's a very nice first time story! And I think it's great that the first one to make you cum is the man you're still with!

southerngirl said...

Great story! Wonderful that you are still together!!!

Enchanted Mistress said...

Very romantic, sweet and cute! Very nice post, thank you for sharing..=)

Andy said...

Candles from a 20 year old. He was far more advanced than most of us...

bdenied said...

Great post. I am struck by the fact that we read over and over again how Female Teachers are getting in legal trouble for having sex with 17 year old boys. In my view its the wimping of the American Male.. You talk of being 17 and him being 20...By todays warped standards he could have gone to jail...How dumb...whatever you did was consensual.....sorry I had to toss my two cents in...other than that, I loved your post and it is cool you married the guy you came with....Great post

Topaz said...

This was incredibly sweet, but more importantly, I really admire your mother. Not many women are strong enough to let their little girls go grow into themselves, and you've seemed to have a wonderful and memorable first experience for it.

Kimberly said...

Great advice from Mom. And the thrill of a summer romance with a slightly older man...SIGH!

Dick Fitzwell said...

Excellent post!

 
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