Warning: Bitchy, whiny vent ahead...

Monday, August 3, 2009

How many times can someone bail out of plans you have made with them before you starting thinking its you? Was it something I said, something I did, geez do I smell bad? I know 'life' happens and shit just gets in the way, but really, fuck....

Mr Big has, yet again, 'been unable to make it'. And I'm pissed, seriously pissed [as if you couldn't already guess] and what's even worse is I'm pissed off that I'm pissed off.....this should not be pissing me off! Mind you, I should have known, its Monday. For some reason, Mondays and I just don't mix.

Oh and then he asks if I'm free one night this week instead....well I could be but I'm pissed off and I cant have sex with someone I'm pissed off with [a girl thing I suspect] so that particular little gem has gone unanswered for the moment....it could take several hours [days] for me to cool off enough to formulate a reply.

Oh it just gets better too....I had been writing a post about the original bit on the side finally being out of my life, but no, he's not. He has started a new job today as a general manager for a large company [good for him, he deserves it!] and I rather naively thought that this new job would keep him relatively office bound and too busy to bother with me. Wrong. So far I have been furnished with his new cellphone number [ you can text me any time] and spammed with emails this morning, ok not spamed, they contained some quite outstanding porn clips, but still. He's there....still. I was obviously being a tad preemptive in writing that post!

On the bright side....I have the most gorgeous blueberry and white chocolate muffin and a packet of timtams waiting for me when I get home, no day is so bad that it cant be fixed with chocolate or alcohol or both!

11 comments:

Enchanted Mistress said...

Sorry to hear about Mr. Big, hope things work out in the end. Mmmm the timtams sound so yummie =)

Rainy said...

I SO know what you're talking about!!! I'm so sorry about Mr. Big canceling on you. This happened to me a month and a half ago and I was pissed too! Real pissed that I didn't talk to him for a few days {just a few days?}

They think that we can just be all smiley and rosey, but it hurts when they cancel our date.... We have life, too, right?

But the muffin does sound good :)

BlueEyes69 said...

Sorry to hear about your broken plans. I don't like that, either. But, I, too, can be somewhat calmed with chocolate, alcohol, sex ... or all three!!!

Cheating Wife said...

Ooooh, I hate that. Cancelled plans are such a pet peeve of mine, though sometimes inevitable. I hope you can find time together again soon...

CW

Gray said...

Oh my lord, I understand this to well. I spent this weekend thinking it must be me, this happens way too much not to be.

Try not to take it personal, I know life gets in the way for other people and it is hard.

Ms Scarlett said...

Petal, it could not possibly be you. But that shouldn't stop you from teasing and tormenting him into a frenzy the next time you see him, just to make your point...
Broken plans suck - I know it! Hang in there sweetie!

Hubman said...

Guys like that who cancel on you repeatedly don't deserve your attention. If you meet with him some other time anyway, he'll get the message that it's okay for him to treat you poorly. Sounds like it's time to move on, imho...

Black Pearl said...

Sorry you keep getting canceled on...but on the bright side I had to google timtams and those shits sound yummy as all hell!!

Between bites say, "Fuck em!"

Nicolai said...

It isn't usually a matter of should or shouldn't mind... It's mostly that you did work on a plan and not you lost that time to do something more constructive. Love or not, important or not, being cancelled always suck.

Kimberly said...

Being ditched also really eats at me. In an affair we look for the madness, the insanity - someone to drop it all and crave us - when they keep scheduling you around stuff that comes up it isn't the sexiest thing out there! I so hear you on this!

Me said...

I hate that too. Hopefully he'll make it up to you somehow !

 
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