Yet another catch up post...

You know, I feel like all I do on this blog is pop up HNT's (sporadically) and write catch up posts. I really need to get my shit together and start writing some decent stuff. And I do have decent stuff to write about! Anyway, back to the catch up....

If you look around, you may notice a few subtle changes. I went through a moment of thinking I was going to start afresh, or maybe change the name of the blog, or maybe even just can it altogether. In the end I decided that, well I like the name, I didn't really want to start afresh and I love writing too much to get rid of it. Besides, my history is what makes me, well me. It stays along with the blog. But I have had fun makes some changes and adding some new bits.

Last weekend The H and I went away for a fantastic weekend away together. We had a blast spending time together without the kids around and the stress of work. Two whole days of just us....bliss! Of course we couldn't resist the opportunity to spend two nights exploring the swingers club that we visited last time we were up there for our wedding anniversary. On the first night, we boldly and bravely swapped with another couple! Interesting experience and not without its own wee speed bump afterwards, but never-the-less, very exciting! The second night was more about hanging out, meeting new people, reacquainting ourselves with ones we had met the night before and watching....oh I do love watching, I'm such a voyeur!

Unfortunately we didn't get the chance to take heaps of awesome pictures for upcoming HNT's, we were ummm distracted by other stuff...and talking about pictures, we have been offered an opportunity to have a free 3 - 4 hour photo shoot with a professional photographer, free because he wants to expand his portfolio using 'real' people....the catch? doing it naked and getting naughty with each other at the same time. Out of curiosity....how many of you out there would do this? I would be interested to know if you would??

That pretty much covers the 'catch up' I have a few other bits and pieces of news but I don't want to spoil posts before I even write them!

Weekend away...

What is the perfect way to celebrate your 16th wedding anniversary? A dirty weekend away of course!


And since I was the one organising it, it involved five-star hotels [I may be slutty but I'm not cheap!] a bit a lot of shopping, a swingers club, some fantastic restaurants & bars and the chance to take some fabulous HNT pictures, which you will get to see over the next few weeks.


Now I know your all just dying to hear about the shopping aren't you? No? hmmm the swingers club then? Ahh thought so...


Right, where to start...Swinging is something that The H and I have always wanted to do. Sure it hasn't been at the top of our 'must do' list but its been there. Since we live in quite a small city where there are not any swingers clubs, only parties, we have put it off. There is something about going to parties vs a club that is a little off-putting for us, especially being first timers. We felt more comfortable with the idea of a club, but opportunities are limited here down-under.


The night not only met but completely exceeded our expectations! Not that we had huge expectations. We went with an open mind and a willingness to give anything a try if it felt comfortable to do so. On the swinging scale, it probably was a fairly low key kind of evening. There were an extraordinary high number of new couples there that evening, so much so that the owner commented that he hadnt seen this many new couples in an evening in a very long time and I gotta say he was rather exciting to be showing us and everyone else 'the ropes' so to speak!


The club was decorated to give it an amazing, sensual atmosphere. The lighting was low-key and perfect, along with some surprisingly good music. There were plenty of naughty places to play and fun things to try out and play with. Just quietly...I want one of those swings for xmas!! Omg are they good! The hosts were uber friendly and if it was your first time, you had a personally guided tour of the place, which was a great way of letting you know the 'rules' of the place.


So with lots of new couples, not a lot of swapping went on, but it was a fantastic place to be to experience being a voyeur. There is something seriously horny about watching other people have sex right in front of you, close enough to touch and making eye contact with them whilst they are doing it. I have always known I was a bit of a voyeur, what did surprise me is how much of an exhibitionist I am! Who knew I would get off on being watched while I'm fucking?


Will we be doing it again? Hell yes, we already have our next 'dirty weekend' away planned....


Oh, in case your wondering, the picture is of me. It doesn't really fit the HNT criteria but I love it so much I had to put it on my blog. The dress didn't stay on very long at the club, I spent most of the evening in just those heels and a smile on my face...